Girl, he’s just not into you.

01-toxic-relationship-walking-on-eggshellsIn a world with so many women to one man, one has to wonder about a few things? How is the playing field equal out here (for ladies anyway)? Single ladies walk around looking for a fella that might be “that one”. Fellas, well, you guys apparently have too many options to choose from.

Gone are the days when people meet, date/court, and marry. Now a day’s, people are dating just to date. No longer are they progressing to the next step. Well, what’s the hold up, I ask? What’s taking so long fellas? I mean, we are waiting for some summer weddings here. I know I am. I thought you might ask that. You guessed it, nope, I’m single. I’m not even in a relationship, much less to even think about marriage. I’m asking for a friend. I do seriously want to attend a summer wedding though.

Back to you fellas, let’s get one thing straight. How long are you going to date someone who you “claim to love“? What’s up with that?

After 4 years of dating and you still don’t see marriage in the future; what in the entire hell are you waiting for? Stop wasting people’s time Sir. Yes, every year it’s the same thing. Let’s wait till next year, we don’t have the money, lets save up for it, I don’t need a ring to prove my love, marriage is just a piece of paper, blah, blah, blah… Seriously?

Ladies, where did we go wrong? Who told us to settle for this? Why are you waiting 100 years, being faithful to one man, just to get married? Ok, I’m exaggerating to an extent, but we deserve so much more. I’m guessing after several years; you guys should have it figured out already. If not, just throw the whole relationship away and start fresh (just kidding).

Does your guy always make excuses as to why he can’t go out with you? Is he always out with the boys? Is he a bobble head (watching women come and go) while you both walk together? Does he talk about other women almost in admiration sometimes? Maybe he defends other women and doesn’t go as hard for? Flirtatious to the point that it makes you insecure? This type of person, for lack of better term, is just NOT into you honey. He is doing nothing more than using you as a tool to pass time. Even if you share children, which I think makes it worst, why hasn’t he committed to you yet? I’m really sorry to be the bearer of bad news, but it’s probably not going to happen. Sir, give her a ring or back off and give her some freedom to roam.

So, how many years have you been with your significant other? How much longer do you plan to “stick it out”, or just “kick it”? Remember the saying about the milk and the cow? Yes, that one. “Why buy the cow if you can get the milk for free” -unknown.

That goes both ways though. I’m not saying make a mass exodus and leave your relationship, but it’s time to re-evaluate where you stand. So, with that being said, what are you gonna do?

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Veronica

I simply want to share the shoes I've worn for so long. I want to allow others to walk a mile in them and learn from my journey. Sometimes pain is the best route to take. It's often the road most would choose not to travel though. "I AM", who I AM now because of the pain and the path I've traveled ...

One thought on “Girl, he’s just not into you.”

  1. Lol. I laugh again at your presumptions that I cannot empathize or relate to this situation. You all have no idea who I am, or what I have been through. I do not have to bare it all to you as complete strangers to validate my point. This isn’t text book; I’m no shrink. When I said something is lacking, I never meant that it was only sex or the wife’s fault. It might’ve stemmed deeper. I also said infidelity is spiritual. People come from all different walks of life and you and your spouse aren’t supposed to be strangers. I stand by every point I’ve made but this is no pity party. No one here can say to me that I do not know because none of you know what I do or don’t know or what I’ve experienced. I’ve been through enough to know not to bother being bitter. My advice to all of you is the same. If you want to blame someone, blame yourself for accepting less than you deserve at any point in time. Blaming the outside woman does not help you or your situation. That’s the point.

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